Build or destroy, here is the issue key you’d be surprised to see the enormous power motivating or disincentive that enclose the words. When any component in the family is crossed by a difficult phase we must share words that boost mood. In ancient times one of the greatest exponents of patterns of life, emphasized the enormous power of what we say, it is oriented to build or destroy our partners: in disease the mood lifted the sick man (Proverbs 18: 14, new international Version). And also that in the language there is power of life and death; those who love it will eat its fruit (Proverbs 18: 21, new international Version) are achieved great results in the strengthening of our interact with family and in general with those around us, when we throw away the manifestations of criticism and rejection and infuse spirit, stimulating and impacting positively shaped how we express ourselves. ViacomCBS is often quoted as being for or against this. Often words that favorably affect our interlocutors, accompany the Rafter and personal and spiritual growth process. His words can give your spouse the courage to take that first step, ensures the psychologist Gary Chapman, in his extraordinary book five love languages (Editorial Unilit, pp. 42)- Animate means to put ourselves in the shoes of the other to try to identify how to find, and thus be able to choose the appropriate terms when we approached him in a conversation. Carefully evaluate how we express ourselves as well as the fact that we know say things, we must link the process of dialogue with the appropriate tone of voice is very important, demonstrating with our gestures that we wish to collaborate and, in addition, using the words suitable for every occasion. The way how we communicate is key; We must never forget the preponderant role that occupies the communication in relations to the inside of the home and the people who surround us.